Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Today went out with adalene to PS and walked ard, shop for stuffs...then were just chatting abt r/s stuffs and all..saying i nwadays seldom meet with ryan cause he is so busy, then she asks me this, i can tahan ar? i told her, i cannot tahan i oso must tahan...i think im the most understanding already lor..really...very give in le..sometimes i oso cant do anything wat..just hope things can be planned well and so on...anyway, then talking abt initiative, i told her guys mostly not very initiative, she says nt really,hah, cos guoxiong is different mah..lolx..
Anyway, guys should really be more sensitive and initiative lah, perhaps thats why this sunday church is having this christian men network for the guys..go and catch smth frm there man all the guys..learn be a real man and be more initiative yea guys..help us gals more and take the 1st step...now i really know guys are at times so no initiative,cant be bothered etc kind...the gals agree?
How To Be A Better Couple :
Always talk things out. Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
Do stuff together. Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
Got this from somewhere
♥ 9/26/2007 09:53:00 PM
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Today went out with adalene to PS and walked ard, shop for stuffs...then were just chatting abt r/s stuffs and all..saying i nwadays seldom meet with ryan cause he is so busy, then she asks me this, i can tahan ar? i told her, i cannot tahan i oso must tahan...i think im the most understanding already lor..really...very give in le..sometimes i oso cant do anything wat..just hope things can be planned well and so on...anyway, then talking abt initiative, i told her guys mostly not very initiative, she says nt really,hah, cos guoxiong is different mah..lolx..
Anyway, guys should really be more sensitive and initiative lah, perhaps thats why this sunday church is having this christian men network for the guys..go and catch smth frm there man all the guys..learn be a real man and be more initiative yea guys..help us gals more and take the 1st step...now i really know guys are at times so no initiative,cant be bothered etc kind...the gals agree?
How To Be A Better Couple :
Always talk things out. Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
Do stuff together. Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
Got this from somewhere
♥ 9/26/2007 09:53:00 PM
